I
want this site to be a place where we talk about a different side
of AD/HD, the personal side, the human side, feelings about yourself
and your relationships. I will give you my perspective that comes
from working close to 20 years with women and men with AD/HD.
I have often had the opportunity and the privilege to see people
grow over several years and I've been able to observe and appreciate
their shifting challenges.
Over the years,
I have developed a framework for understanding what makes the
difference between those who get stuck sometime after diagnosis
and those who continue to grow and move on. I find it has been
helpful to share this with my clients so they can understand the
developmental milestones in the lives of adults with AD/HD and
I have developied this site as a place to share these thoughts
with you. My perspective has also evolved from my own journey
of living with AD/HD as well as from people all over world who
have shared their stories with me.
I hope this
will be a place to talk about those shifting and important challenges
and issues that emerge long past diagnosis -- questions of identity,
meaning, authenticity; questions about how you form a new identity
and sense of purpose, and how to organize your life in deeper
ways beyond a new Franklin planner.
My goal is
to give you a great place to explore and express yourself and
to guide you in choosing experiences to help you on your life
long journey - whether you are just starting out or if your feeling
a little lost months or years after diagnosis.
I want this
site to be a relaxing but active place - a warm place to check
in, communicate, and connect with others. I'll very much enjoy
sharing with you some of my own thoughts, recommendations and
tips. I'll tell you about the products and services I offer and
about the things I'm doing or things I hear about that I think
are worth while.
I first became
known to many of you because of the book I wrote about women with
AD/HD. But I also work equally with men and couples. My second
book "Journeys through ADDulthood" explores and
identifies the long term journeys or passages that both men and
women with AD/HD will travel through as they learn to live successfully
with differences.
I have a great
deal of affection for adults with AD/HD and respect for the tremendous
struggles they face each day, invisible and sometimes incomprehensible
to many around them. You need a place to sit back and relax, talk,
feel understood and to share your understanding with others. You
are the experts on yourselves and I have learned a tremendous
amount from you. I have also received incredible support from
people all over the world since the publication of my first book
and this is a way for me to give back to you and to find a way
to stay connected to you.
So I hope
you will return to this site frequently and join other women and
men around the world in an exploration of the challenges and gifts
of living with AD/HD.
Warm
Regards,
Sari
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